Hi S.U.M,

I’ve been best friends with this guy for six years now. We do a lot of things together which means we spent most of our days together. He has been a good friend from day 1 and has been with me through out my past relationships.

Recently I noticed I have feelings for him and It’s becoming uncontrollable. The problem is he has a girlfriend which he loves so much. I plan on telling him about my love for him but I am scared because I don’t want to be the cause of their break-up. I also don’t want to lose him as a friend.

What should I do?