Are you single and searching and you want to know about what not to do at the talking stage? Then this is for you!

The talking stage is also known as the get to know each other stage. It’s the stage where you talk about yourselves and share your contacts(maybe not)😂. We have listed out 5 things you should not do during the talking stage. Check this

5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO DURING THE TALKING STAGE

1. STAY MUTE

Staying mute at the talking stage is a total TURN OFF. you have to talk, initiate topics, just bring something to the talking table. If you are an introvert, it is best for you to search for topics to talk about on search engines like Google or apps like Pinterest to make the talking more fun. You won’t love it if it’s one sided.

2. TELL LIES

Lies! Lies! Lies! Nobody wants to be lied to especially couples. You have to refrain from telling lies while getting to know your prospective partner. Just be plain. If you feel there are some things you don’t want to share at that moment, you should probably keep them to yourself till the time you feel it’s best to share rather than telling lies.

3. INITIATE THE BIG WORD

Sometimes initiating the word SEX can be a turn off depending on your prospective partner. Some ladies don’t like to hear men talk about sex during the talking stage cos it makes them feel insecure. It leaves a bad impression on them.

4. ALLOW SEE FINISH

See finish is like oversharing or exposing everything to your prospective partner. Knowing people doesn’t stop. You can be with someone for 5years, 10 years and still not know them to the extreme. Knowing people is a gradual process, so you have to refrain from oversharing things about yourself. It might turn out bad.

5. BEING POSSESSIVE

Hello! If you can hear me from the back, I say do not be possessive. You both are only getting to know each other, she’s not yours yet, he’s not yours yet. Give them some SPACE! Allow them to pop up the big question first before claiming what’s yours.

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